When you both say yes.
The app made for gay couples that turns what you both want into real nights. With a secret twist.
Other couples apps help you talk about it.
Hard Yes makes it happen.
Only your yeses meet.
You each swipe on your own. He only ever sees what you both said yes to, so a no stays yours and there's nothing awkward to say. Then the app turns your yeses into plans.
Date night, with a secret.
Every date is split in two. You plan your half, he plans his, and sealed clues land through the day. Neither of you knows the whole night until it starts.
No time to plan? One tap and we plan it for you, his half sent straight to him. And we'll remind you both before the birthdays and anniversaries that matter.
Getaways that start with a boarding pass.
Surprise him or plan it together: a weekend away, a whole country, a road trip or a cruise, with every stop planned in six quick taps. He gets a Couples class boarding pass the day you leave, his phone gets warmer the closer you get, and every trip earns a gold stamp in your passport.
Go anywhere, together.
Planned by people who know what two men travelling together actually need.
Every country, rated: welcoming, keep it low-key, or take care. What's usually fine, what's best avoided, and who to call. Free for everyone.
Tell us the kind of stay this time: treat yourselves, nice but sensible, or keep it simple. Gay resorts and men-only hotels come first, then places other couples loved and hotels whose staff are trained to welcome LGBTQ+ guests. Photos, reviews, and one tap to book direct or with our booking partners.
Every line and every ship, Atlantis and VACAYA included. Pick your ship, paste your cruise link, and your ports fill in, each with its own day in your plan.
A stop every night, the drive time between each one, and the ferry if you're crossing. Long day ahead? Add a stop in one tap.
Type the flight number, or snap a screenshot of your booking, and the times, terminal and gate fill in. You both hear about delays. Forward a train or ferry booking and it's added for you.
Days to go on your Lock Screen and in the Dynamic Island, then "We're here" when you land. Discreet, always.
So much more inside.
Small rituals, big nights, and everything in between.
Say how you're feeling. He only sees it if you both land on the same page, so nobody gets turned down.
A game with a different secret on each phone. Same room, same bed, no idea what he's got.
One sense at a time. You set it up, he turns up blindfolded and only gets a tease.
Write the thing you've never said. He breaks the seal when he's ready.
A time each day that's just the two of you, phones down.
When things have gone quiet, four weeks of small daily steps back to each other.
One question a day, for two. You only see his answer once you've given yours. Keep the streak going.
Your anniversary, his birthday, the night you met. We remind you both in time, with a plan ready to go.
Write the thing that isn't in the deck. It goes into both your decks, and stays between you.
Pick a coach together.
He sets you both a plan, gives you each your own part, and notices when it's gone quiet.
Let's take this slowly.
Oh, this is going to be fun.
Good choice. Now behave.
On your terms.
Invite-only guests that you both approve, private chats, and ground rules built to protect what the two of you have. Only if you both turn it on.
What happens in Hard Yes stays between you two.
Nobody sees your noes. No strangers, no public profiles, no ads, and we never sell your data. Your chat and photos are end-to-end encrypted, and your location never leaves your phone.
What does he see?
Only what you've both said yes to. Your noes, maybes and hard limits never leave your side. We work out your matches on our server and never show anyone your answers.
Is it just for gay couples?
It's made for couples of men: the cards, the coaches and the language are written for you. Together for six months or sixteen years, it works the same.
Is it safe to travel as a gay couple?
Most places, yes, and Hard Yes tells you before you go. Every trip shows a "Travelling as a couple" card for each country, with what's usually fine, what's best avoided and who to call, checked against official travel advice. It's guidance, not legal advice, and it's free for everyone.
What does it cost?
It's free to start, with a 14-day free trial of Premium. Premium unlocks everything for NZ$129 a year or NZ$24.99 a month, and one subscription covers you both. Join the waitlist now and you're a founding couple: your first year is NZ$99.
Everything you get. For two.
That's NZ$2.48 a week. Try it free for 14 days.
Or NZ$24.99 a month. One subscription covers you both. Cancel anytime.
Founding couples: your first year is NZ$99. Join the waitlist below.
Be one of our first couples.
We're opening Hard Yes to a small group first. Leave your email and we'll let you know the day it lands. Founding couples get their first year of Premium for NZ$99.
Just your email, nothing else. Coming to iPhone first, then Android. 18+.